choices.

mak selalu cakap, bkn semua org yg kita boleh masuk dengan. ada org, the first time jumpa, kita boleh klik n kawan sampai bila2. ada org, kita takleh kawan dgn langsung. tak tau kenapa.i used to complaint a lot to my mum about people i could not get along with, regardless friends, cousins or even colleagues. i still do actually. my mom, my everything. so much so that i still seek her opinions in everything that i do, be it small or important matters pun.

ada byk sbb knp kita tak boleh klik dgn org lain. faktor persekitaran & family(how we were brought up) selalunya adalah antara faktor yg penting. i often see rude people and wonder what made them to be that rude, only to find that their parents are just as rude as they are. but there are some cases also where the parents are as sweet as an angel but their child's totally the opposite of them. so perangai manusia ni sgtlah unpredictable n dipengaruhi oleh byk perkara.sometimes kita tak boleh klik dgn org not because of them pun, but just because we become someone else when we're with them, that they bring out the worst in us, something like that.

bila saya rasa saya tak boleh klik dgn org, benda pertama yg saya akan fikir adalah "what did i do wrong?" and akan focus on how to improve myself to suit others' needs. which is not good for my self development kot. asyik la nak pk pasal org lain, even org buat kita mcm taik pun kan.

so my defense mechanism is to avoid people who bring out the worst in me to avoid further complications. like my mom said, u have a choice whether or not u want to be friends with someone or not, if u feel that someone is bad for u, by all means, u have the choice not to be friends with that person. mcm kata pepatah, kawan dgn penjual minyak wangi, kita bau wangi, kawan dgn pembersih tahi, kita bau tahi juga(ada ke pepatah ni?)

so teka teki utk hari ni, kalau kawan dgn pekerja kilang bau apa?haha.


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