tak luak pun

a friend of mine called today saying that she's depressed, she's sad that people around her keep talking behind her and that its driving her crazy. hmm.... i asked her "whats the worst thing that can happen?mak kau mati tak?ada mana2 family member kau mati tak bila org ckp blkg kau?" and she said no and after that a long pause.

hmm, what can i say. of course la kita akan terasa bila org ckp blkg kita kan, especially org2 sekeliling yg rapat dgn kita kan. especially the so-called friends yg depan kita baik, tp kat blkg mak aih, dia yang kaw kaw kutuk kita. bukan tak pernah kena, pernah. tp like i said, tak luak pun kalau org kutuk kite, baby aqeef tak berusik pun, suami saya tak kurang pun sayang dia kat saya, serious tak terkesan sekelumit pun. so, buat apa nak sedih2 kan, nak stress2 bagai. tak luak pun.

org bile ckp pasal kite maksudnya dia sgt caring pasal kite, n kite patut rasa bersyukur sgt sbb orang tu ambil berat pasal kite to the extend yg bila kite takde kat situ pun dia ingat kite. huhu. bersyukur sudah. like i said, tak luak pun.

to the friend(u know who u are), there's no need to be depressed ok, u have so many things in life to look forward to, there's no need to focus your attention to stupid distractions. seriously, u cannot stop people from talking, it will drive u crazy if u try to do so. what u can do is, smile when the world is cruel on u. and know for a fact that no one controls your happiness and well being, but u.:)please know that u're an amazing person n i love u lots tau.

p/s: saya happy hari ni, Allah bagi saya rezeki yg murah utk baby aqeef saya, baby besar saya dan ibu bapa saya,:) alhamdulillah, syukur.


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